tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.comments2023-10-02T15:47:05.963+05:30MINDZPEAKShobhithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comBlogger793125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-84586090380537860042015-03-27T17:48:33.113+05:302015-03-27T17:48:33.113+05:30wordssetmefreee :
Yes. You almost put out the gis...wordssetmefreee :<br /><br />Yes. You almost put out the gist of what I wanted to convey. Thank you for reading and providing your valuable thoughts. :-)Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-33863177695394838902015-03-27T08:23:33.174+05:302015-03-27T08:23:33.174+05:30Shobit, I agree with MR above. I love my kids and...Shobit, I agree with MR above. I love my kids and do the maximum possible best I can for them. In return, I only want them to show their love - by keeping in touch, sharing their thoughts and experiences. That's all. I don't want them to support us in our old age. That is unfair - I think we should plan for our own retirement and not treat our kids as our insurance policy. Also kids should decide whom they want to marry, where they want to work, all those adult decisions that they need to make, they must have free will over them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-41526187564856556212015-03-26T22:46:08.902+05:302015-03-26T22:46:08.902+05:30MR :
Thank you for reading and for the thoughtful...MR :<br /><br />Thank you for reading and for the thoughtful comment. The thing is that many people start mistaking expectations with entitlements. It is not a crime to have expectations. But is is absolutely wrong to force someone to fulfill those expectations at the cost of their own happiness. Very often, such a force is well disguised in the form of a debt.Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-89891357620590402762015-03-26T19:17:19.590+05:302015-03-26T19:17:19.590+05:30Nicely written. :-)
As a parent of 2 kids one alm...Nicely written. :-) <br />As a parent of 2 kids one almost an adult , i know for a fact that they didnt ask to be born. I know for a fact that they wuld have been happy with 3 meals a day and basic clothing and shelter and left to play int he dirt, they are perfectly fine with a regular public school education. They have no expectations of being treated like little princes, givent he best and absolutely no expectations from us that we will toil, work, sweat and tears for them. <br />having said that we parents do it because it makes us feel good, It makes me feel good to take my kids on nice vacations, expose them to diff cultures, dress them in good clothes, give them nutritious and sometimes expensive meals. send them to the best classes. spend a ton of money on them. I do it all by myself. for myself, of cours ethe brats are the beneficiaries but they dont expect it. <br />This is not just in my house it's the universal norm everywhere. so why should parents have expectations, where is the debt, in fact we owe our kids a debt until our dying day for the joy they have provided to us ( and pain too :-) ). wise parents will plan for retirement. <br />its the not so wise who see kids as their PF plan. your child can never and should never be responsible for your happiness and care. as an adult a fully grown adult it is the responsibility of every parent to set a good example and teach the next gen on self-sufficiency not leach like behavior. you are the masters of your own fate. what better lessont o teach them .MRhttp://mythilirajesh.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-51975098950327295992015-01-03T13:41:00.609+05:302015-01-03T13:41:00.609+05:30Alka Gurha :
Dhoni was probably the last bit of r...Alka Gurha :<br /><br />Dhoni was probably the last bit of reason for me watching cricket and now that has gone too. It's so sad when people quickly equate talent with leadership.<br /><br />Thanks for the nice comment, Alka Ma'am. I've a lot of catching up to do on your blog. :-)Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-58186071403779269342015-01-03T12:08:11.586+05:302015-01-03T12:08:11.586+05:30Talent and leadership are as different as apples a...Talent and leadership are as different as apples and oranges. Sachin's captaincy proved that.<br />I am not a cricket buff but Dhoni was a true leader in many ways.Alka Gurhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12050387590729571321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-22868049340883467682014-11-30T22:34:17.983+05:302014-11-30T22:34:17.983+05:30shreya :
I can't say that I really had a grea...shreya :<br /><br />I can't say that I really had a great time there but I surely gathered some experiences. Amritsar was good though.<br /><br />Thank you for reading and liking. :-)Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-79342522266142669422014-11-30T22:32:47.368+05:302014-11-30T22:32:47.368+05:30The Unsure Ascetic :
Thank you ! :-)The Unsure Ascetic :<br /><br />Thank you ! :-)Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-73794665302930620872014-11-28T13:38:10.875+05:302014-11-28T13:38:10.875+05:30Very nice article. It seems you had a great time t...Very nice article. It seems you had a great time there with ample of experiences. I have already been to amritsar but not the border....thank u for sharing your experience...shreyahttps://jumbodium.com/blognoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-68040102026386320542014-11-12T15:29:58.935+05:302014-11-12T15:29:58.935+05:30so true..so true!!..you echo my thoughts....that i...so true..so true!!..you echo my thoughts....that is why i love this song.."tu hindu banega na musalmaan banega....insaan ki aulaad hai insaan banega..."...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-75232028082521591882014-11-11T17:42:16.342+05:302014-11-11T17:42:16.342+05:30one of my "to visit" places..nice write ...one of my "to visit" places..nice write upThe Unsure Ascetichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10196315126703878175noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-22726170402142325122014-10-10T16:46:37.997+05:302014-10-10T16:46:37.997+05:30Alka Gurha :
Yes Alka Ma'am. The problem is t...Alka Gurha :<br /><br />Yes Alka Ma'am. The problem is that those who wont allow are the ones who were themselves forced into their religion by birth. This will continue until the cycle is broken at some point.Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-13339057075639658632014-10-08T11:38:46.947+05:302014-10-08T11:38:46.947+05:30Pertinent point. Let the child decide. But not man...Pertinent point. Let the child decide. But not many will allow this freedomAlka Gurhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12050387590729571321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-72494279838402494052014-10-02T00:57:19.341+05:302014-10-02T00:57:19.341+05:30Avada Kedavra :
Exactly ! And that is how seeds o...Avada Kedavra :<br /><br />Exactly ! And that is how seeds of religious fanaticism are sowed which create a lot of nuisance when such a kid grows up.Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-25179212201140044292014-10-01T01:51:51.439+05:302014-10-01T01:51:51.439+05:30Even my cousin was made to fast even though she wa...Even my cousin was made to fast even though she was hardly 5 or 6 and I felt it was stupid. Why should a kid fast when it does not even understand why it is fasting?! Avada Kedavrahttp://ashscerebrations.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-27511741059263437972014-08-16T19:27:01.166+05:302014-08-16T19:27:01.166+05:30Anonymous :
I guess you commented on the wrong pa...Anonymous :<br /><br />I guess you commented on the wrong page. I hope you were able to make this comment where you initially intended to post it. :P<br /><br />All the best ! :-)Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-19591764102691665272014-08-06T16:56:55.321+05:302014-08-06T16:56:55.321+05:30themindspeaks :
Thank you for the nice words !
I...themindspeaks :<br /><br />Thank you for the nice words !<br /><br />It is really amazing to find someone with a similar blog name. Cheers ! :-)Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-21944449194696068912014-08-05T01:45:11.961+05:302014-08-05T01:45:11.961+05:30Respect, most men would choose to turn a blind eye...Respect, most men would choose to turn a blind eye to the topic, whilst some would amuse themselves.<br /><br />I came here through "Red Handed" and Voila! your blog name and mine are similar :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-50159965754184013932014-06-09T01:05:14.433+05:302014-06-09T01:05:14.433+05:30simple girl..... :
Thank you for the appreciation...simple girl..... :<br /><br />Thank you for the appreciation ! Do keep visiting. :-)Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-76806173763726982312014-06-08T08:14:02.334+05:302014-06-08T08:14:02.334+05:30dropping here from IHM's blog .. and just a WO...dropping here from IHM's blog .. and just a WOW post ...:)simple girl.....https://www.blogger.com/profile/03118562407633534338noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-19724101369031256962014-06-07T18:49:03.330+05:302014-06-07T18:49:03.330+05:30ramblingsbybones :
Welcome to my blog ! :-) I bel...ramblingsbybones :<br /><br />Welcome to my blog ! :-) I believe, if men start taking this topic as something normal and not funny or ridiculous, it will only help women to solve the various problems associated with this issue.Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-58375208079609240962014-06-07T18:45:19.564+05:302014-06-07T18:45:19.564+05:30Anonymous :
Thanks for your kind words. :-)Anonymous :<br /><br />Thanks for your kind words. :-)Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-8935855184772462732014-06-07T18:44:42.928+05:302014-06-07T18:44:42.928+05:30Nidaa C. :
Thank you for reading and liking. I ne...Nidaa C. :<br /><br />Thank you for reading and liking. I never understood why it had to be linked to religion or rituals. As you said, why can't women say it as it is. I guess because people are not sensitive enough towards the issue which thus makes any female uncomfortable to say it out. Things really need to change so that women are not forced to pretend.Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-20555537235451181942014-06-07T09:13:04.663+05:302014-06-07T09:13:04.663+05:30I came too your blog via IHM's...You are the f...I came too your blog via IHM's...You are the first man I know who has publicly discussed this issue...I wish more men were like you...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-57028805518587496122014-06-06T22:52:25.731+05:302014-06-06T22:52:25.731+05:30Respect from me too!! Today's world needs more...Respect from me too!! Today's world needs more men like you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com