tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post7230391350473951424..comments2023-10-02T15:47:05.963+05:30Comments on MINDZPEAK: Unacceptable Love...Shobhithttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-56881511405607856442011-07-30T19:48:44.660+05:302011-07-30T19:48:44.660+05:30Preethika Shenoy Padiyar :
I wonder if the those ...Preethika Shenoy Padiyar :<br /><br />I wonder if the those parents are really happy. Which parent would be happy to see their child suffer ? And that too, just for some stupid reason, or rather ego, or even more preposterously, for honor ??<br /><br />As per my experience, such parents are not even the least concerned for their children once the marriage is done and over with. At least they have maintained their (imaginary/stupid/worthless) honor intact amidst relatives and society... :-/Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-22726493867058721002011-07-30T18:22:10.719+05:302011-07-30T18:22:10.719+05:30I really can't think about a life if my parent...I really can't think about a life if my parents never agreed to me.. coz I am already married to the person I wanted to... <br />but it is sad... I have a friend who had opposition from both the families... Somehow they cud not try to make their parents agree... Both of them spoke and decided they will break up.. Now both are suffering to see their parents happy... It is really sad... :(Pritzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14785900157238757294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-47817880496104754162009-12-10T18:23:52.241+05:302009-12-10T18:23:52.241+05:30Garima :
Yes. Maybe deciding at such an early sta...Garima :<br /><br />Yes. Maybe deciding at such an early stage isn't easy, if not impossible. Because they usually never know when that phase has passed.<br /><br />But fighting the world is possible. Wonder why and what people fear of if they really love someone...Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-84942452491425475662009-12-10T15:54:57.334+05:302009-12-10T15:54:57.334+05:30^^^Yeah I remember that one...it was the outcome o...^^^Yeah I remember that one...it was the outcome of watching Love Aaj Kal :)<br /><br />And this situation hurts terribly when one consider it to be love and fights with the world for that and other decided to step back. I think couples should decide in these things in the first phase of their relationship...if they dont have the guts to fight with their parents or society they should not get into it...<br />I also know that its not possible...Garimahttp://garima82.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-8615459738040597412009-12-08T15:07:26.994+05:302009-12-08T15:07:26.994+05:30Garima :
Exactly... I've seen from very close...Garima :<br /><br />Exactly... I've seen from very closely, two such relationships break up. Though there were difficulties of caste, one person from each of those two couples took a back seat...<br /><br />I guess that wasn't really love. They were just relationships. A difference which I made out in one of my earlier posts 'Decision or Emotion'...Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-20484532429990434522009-12-08T11:13:39.621+05:302009-12-08T11:13:39.621+05:30And sometimes if its not the parents then relative...And sometimes if its not the parents then relatives do the harm...<br />I have seen relationships coming to an end 'cos of different castes and religions... lower castes upper castes etc. <br />In some cases the couple decides to fight them all... and some times either of them takes a back seat...which is worst then getting ditched by your parents.Garimahttp://garima82.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-18076349091956312152009-12-08T00:37:54.615+05:302009-12-08T00:37:54.615+05:30evanescentthoughts :
Thanks for sparing time to r...evanescentthoughts :<br /><br />Thanks for sparing time to read my posts. I know you've been so busy with the two most important people of your life... :)<br /><br />I just hope our generation turns out to be a bit more broad-minded when it grows up as you said.<br /><br />Talking of 'gothra', aren't everybody each other's brother and sister then... just that it would go a bit more into history... maybe to the time man evolved... :D<br /><br />Being related a few generations back shouldn't create much of a problem. Though I'll need to check up with the theories of genetics for that. :)<br /><br />I'll write to you about the guest post you mentioned. :)Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-34837859988683948742009-12-08T00:06:50.641+05:302009-12-08T00:06:50.641+05:30Hey shobhit, I know you wont have lot of free time...Hey shobhit, I know you wont have lot of free time. But if you find some free time, can you write a guest post for my blog :) My email address is evanescentthoughts@yahoo.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-3512901582091609772009-12-08T00:04:51.794+05:302009-12-08T00:04:51.794+05:30Agree with you.. "Education has nothing to do...Agree with you.. "Education has nothing to do with the mindset of the individual these days." -> this is sooooo true. I dont know when our society is gonna become more broad-minded. Hopefully our next generation will see a better future, since we will be the elders then and we are little bit more broad minded, compared to our previous generations.<br />Btw same gothra is not allowed because if two people belong to same gothra, they are like brother and sister :) <br />Sorry for missing your posts earlier :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-36944440116595131762009-12-02T01:18:09.410+05:302009-12-02T01:18:09.410+05:30Shalini :
Same here. :) I must say we are really ...Shalini :<br /><br />Same here. :) I must say we are really lucky to have "our worlds" as such.<br /><br />Really... How can someone else choose one's love... ?? Love can't be decided (as I wrote in an earlier post 'Decision or Emotion') !Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-76201260070288031612009-12-01T22:02:34.845+05:302009-12-01T22:02:34.845+05:30I know...its ridiculous. Just because the guy/girl...I know...its ridiculous. Just because the guy/girl is someone "not chosen" by the parents themselves...they won't understand!<br />Thankfully, "my world" is comprised of people who are willing to understand their children and happily accept their love.Shalinihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15203300200722997722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-91107525869070911492009-12-01T12:01:05.197+05:302009-12-01T12:01:05.197+05:30Rashmi :
Exactly. Isn't it strange that almos...Rashmi :<br /><br />Exactly. Isn't it strange that almost 90% (or maybe 95%) of our movies are based on love ? The biggest hits have been love stories. But, when it comes to real life, we just can't tolerate anyone being in love.<br /><br />Truly, hypocrites of the highest order. That's what we really are.Shobhithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808758234754141383noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1162813262147211598.post-58612976572538406372009-12-01T09:35:46.929+05:302009-12-01T09:35:46.929+05:30True to its every word...we as a society are hypoc...True to its every word...we as a society are hypocrites of the highest order. All we do is twist and turn every possible thing we could just to serve our sick moralistic values, which in turn varies from each one of us.Rashmihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04878551512460928721noreply@blogger.com